How often have you heard, “It is out of your control”? How many times, then, have we accepted that as fact? Inevitably, things happen outside our control; lightning strikes your house, a tornado levels a town, or your big sister dies from cancer… The words above by Tolle ring obtrusively in my ears when I … More Acceptance
I could probably come up with a million examples of how my striving for perfection has wreaked havoc in my life. Self-denial is a prominent character I possess which is counterproductive to understanding no pinnacle of perfection will be reached. Perfection is sought in such an unhealthy way in my life, which lends itself to … More Why do we strive for perfection?
“I think I would like to do that when I grow older.” “The only reason that person can do it is because she is pretty. You might want to find something else to do with your life.” A universal constant in my life has been taht I have allowed other’s opinions of me to affect … More Get out of the boat
No matter how much you try, some things are beyond your control The absurdity with which we carry out menial tasks on the daily is astounding. Why do we subject ourselves to mediocrity and then blame society for where we are in our lot in life? What keeps us from making the choice to be … More Exercise in Futility
I constantly tell the children, “You need to be patient.” “Mommy, I’m hungry.” “Please be patient.” “Mommy, can I have?” “Please be patient.” “Mommy…” Why do we expect others to do what we find so difficult for ourselves to do? My most arduous struggle in life has been patience. Ok, maybe one of the hardest. … More Patience
When God's plan isn't obvious 